Sermon Preached by Rev. Jack Snellgrove on Sunday, July 13, 2025
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Thank you. It's good to be here. I am one of you, and Lana and I are grateful to be here and appreciate you so much. The text today that I'm focusing on is the parable of the Good Samaritan, and the text that you read is a good prelude for that, as it speaks about hospitality.
But just let me share with you the essence of the parable. A lawyer that was among the crowd asked Jesus—after he had asked what was the greatest commandment. And Jesus said to him, as Jesus’s teaching mode is, “What does the law say?” And the lawyer said, “It's love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength.” And Jesus said, “That's right. Do this and you will live.” And then the scripture says, “The lawyer, seeking to justify himself, said to Jesus, ‘Who’s my neighbor?’”
And Jesus then tells a parable. He says, “There was a certain man who was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and he fell among robbers and thieves. They beat him, stripped him of his clothes, stole what he had, and left him half dead”—paraphrased, lying in a ditch. Along came a priest, a member of the Jewish royal order, who saw the man lying beside the road and passed on by. Next came a Levite, one who is vested in the law of the Torah. He looked and saw the man and passed on by.
Then came a Samaritan. And what we need to know here is the Samaritan is considered an enemy to the Jewish. Along came a Samaritan, and the Samaritan looked and saw the man, and he took him and bound up his wounds. He placed him on his donkey and took him to a nearby inn, cared for him, and then told the innkeeper—after having given him two denarii, which is two days’ wages—“Take this and provide for his needs, and if there is more needed, I will repay you when I return.”
At the conclusion of the parable, Jesus said, “Who was the neighbor?” And the young lawyer said, “The one who showed mercy and compassion.” And Jesus said, “Go and do likewise.” Now, that's the text for today.
It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood.
A beautiful day for a neighbor.
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
It’s a neighborly day in this beauty wood,
A neighborly day for a beauty.
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you.
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.
So, let's make the most of this beautiful day.
Since we're together, we might as well say,
“Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won’t you be my neighbor?
Won’t you please?
Won’t you please?
Please, please, won’t you be my neighbor?”
My apologies to Mr. Rogers. I started to bring my chair and change my shoes and put on that sweater, but I thought that might be a little too much.
Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood is the show that educated me as I watched it with my children growing up. The lyrics make the point of trying to define who is a neighbor. A neighbor is not only about location, but being a neighbor is defined by what we do and who is the person in need.
As a young boy—preschool—I knew who my neighbors were. There was Mr. and Mrs. McNair; they lived next door to our left. And then there were Verdice and Nell Hydrickch. No, no, no—I'm sorry. My memory. I have senior moments now and then. Mr. and Mrs. McNair were on our left. They were an older couple—somewhere in their 50s. And then Verdice and Nell Hydrickch lived on our right. They had three kids: Claude, Jean, and Patty. Claude was the oldest, then Jean, then Patty. They were our neighbors.
And so, when my Sunday school teacher talked about loving my neighbor and being a good neighbor, I knew exactly what she meant: love the McNairs and love the Hydrickches. And I did that.
People that lived far away, perhaps in foreign countries, were my neighbors too. But they were to be treated as if, my Sunday school teacher said, as if they lived next door. It was for these neighbors—the ones that lived far, far away—that I put my pennies and nickels and dimes in this little box shaped like a church. And I would bring those three or four times a year, and we would give them so that it could feed the poor in our world.
I also learned—that’s when I knew that we were not poor—because they never gave the box back to me. So that was good to know. I gave our offering to these neighbors. And there was another group of neighbors that I brought food from our pantry to help—those that didn’t have food. I brought the ones that said “spinach.” Yeah. Kids have marvelous ways of getting rid of things in the pantry that they don’t like.
But I brought canned goods and things that we could give to those that were in need. And these were our neighbors also. In my mind, these were church neighbors—neighbors defined by the church. I never met them. Sometimes there would be pictures, and I could see pictures and say, “Oh, that’s what my neighbor looks like.”
I did think it was strange, though, that in our church’s neighborhood, where the building was located—a Black community and church were right outside our back door. I would suspect they were neighbors. And yet, our church—we never did anything for them as a congregation, even though they were next door. I always visited with the McNairs and the Hydrickches, and we were always borrowing sugar, flour, and milk from one another as we needed it. And yet with our Black neighbors next door at church, we never shared anything, at least that I knew about. We didn’t even share conversations.
I was confused. But after all, this was the South, and I was just a kid. Adults knew better than I did. So I just accepted that this was how adults—and my church—defined what it means to be a neighbor. But that was then.
Then I was a child, sitting in Miss Bertha’s Sunday school class, singing Jesus Loves Me and Jesus Loves the Little Children of the World. My Sunday school teachers and my preacher instructed me as to who is my neighbor. But now, as an adult—now, as an adult—I take my cue for who is my neighbor from the teachings of Jesus. I now understand that “neighbor” is defined by my actions and not solely by a person’s location.
So when Mr. Rogers sings, “Won’t you be my neighbor?” he’s asking me to enter into a relationship wherein we treat each other with kindness and generosity. That’s what it means to be a neighbor.
Now, all of this brings us to the teachings Jesus regarded. Whenever he was asked, “Who is my neighbor?” he told the parable that I told you. Let me be clear: I’ve preached on this text for almost 50 years. And in each sermon, I try to get at the heart of the teaching. But as I approach the text today—as I have often done—I feel that I missed some of the points of the parable. So my sermon is a confession of what I missed. It doesn’t take away from what I said previously—I think I was okay. You know, it was okay. But today, I come with new eyes.
For instance, I have, for the most part, given the lawyer in the text a hard time. I read the word tested—that the lawyer tested Jesus—I read it in a negative way. I understood that the lawyer was trying to trick Jesus into making a mistake, saying something that would lead people to disrespect him or possibly get him on the wrong side of Jewish law.
I also understood the phrase seeking to justify himself as a phrase that meant he wanted to validate his point of view, his knowledge, and demonstrate how much smarter he was than Jesus—or to take himself off the spot. That was then. That’s how I preached that sermon all through my ministry.
But today, I want to give the lawyer credit for seeking clarity—clarity in Who is my neighbor? Because I say this because I find myself asking the question, Who is my neighbor? I still find myself asking the church for clarity: Who is my neighbor?
The events of last week have impacted me as I sought to understand this parable’s impact upon the lives of individuals and communities and our nation.
The events I reference are the massive flood of the Guadalupe River in southern Texas. The rapidly rising waters of the river—they say 22 feet in two hours—destroyed property and killed over a hundred people, many of whom were little girls from a Christian camp called Mystic Camp. And from the pictures and reports I’ve seen and heard, this was a horrific tragedy, leaving the surrounding communities devastated.
The grief is overwhelming for neighbors who knew someone who was killed or suffered the ravages of the storm. The New York Times reported on many celebrities who journeyed to southern Texas to the site, offering help. And besides the physical help, there was also the pouring out of funds to give aid to those who were suffering loss. The response was, according to The Times, so great that local community people pleaded with those providing help to please, please work with the established relief agencies in order to coordinate the efforts.
Truly, truly, mercy and compassion were demonstrated toward those who were—and who are—suffering. Lots of neighboring going on.
Immediately—listen to this—immediately, Mexico, who’s not always been in our good graces lately, right, with the administration? Mexico, under the leadership of President Claudia Sheinbaum Pardo, rushed to provide help and assistance to the ravaged area. President Trump and First Lady Melania visited Kerrville, Texas on Friday. They toured the area and met with families affected by the tragedy, as well as many volunteers working in rescue operations. Fox News reported extensively on the many residents that praised the president for his concern and his compassion.
Being a good neighbor was the defining characteristic of so many people as they responded to this event.
But even as I anguished for the flood victims, I was also aware of the thousands of Gaza residents who are suffering from the ravages of war and face so many obstacles just to get meager relief supplies that are being offered. They grieve over 60,000 deaths, and yet much of the world—including our current administration—moves on as if they’re not there.
I also note that while our president was visiting Kerrville, his staff was hunting down immigrants across the nation, building prisons to house the thousands he intends to deport. He’s cutting Medicaid to the poor, refusing to fund SNAP, a government organization that provides food for the poor.
I thought to myself: if our president is a person of mercy and compassion, how could he and his administration not be a neighbor to the immigrant, the poor, and those who are suffering the abuse of war? That’s what I asked myself.
Defining who is my neighbor is a real question today. Perhaps I—and others—have been too hard on the lawyer in the text asking for clarity. Because I think a lot of folks are asking, Who is my neighbor? when they look at these actions.
When Lana and I retired in 2008, we eventually moved to a community located on the Savannah River about 40 miles north of Augusta, Georgia, in a community in South Carolina—McCormick, South Carolina. And in the absence of having a Christian Church nearby, we started attending a community church.
Well, about four or five years ago, this community church’s denomination had a General Assembly—much like what’s going on at the General Assembly in Memphis. And a resolution was passed by the denominational assembly that they would be a sanctuary church. That means that if there were any alien—any immigrants, legal or illegal—that sought help and relief, they would reach out in mercy and compassion.
Immediately, the congregation became divided in half. And after a vote, half of the people left that congregation, saying, “We will not be a part of a congregation that breaks the law.”
What law? Who is my neighbor? Split this faith community. And it’s splitting our nation and this community.
We have friends who are part of the United Methodist Church, and they’re living in the aftermath of a split—a major split—over whether same-sex couples can be married in the church, and whether a pastor or minister can be in a gay or lesbian lifestyle.
Who is my neighbor? If the foundation of the law of God is to love God with everything I am—heart, mind, soul, and strength—and to love my neighbor as myself, then I think the lawyer has a valid question when he asks Jesus, “Who is my neighbor?”
And Jesus answers his question with the parable that I told you. And we immediately know the answer—it’s the same one the lawyer gave. Who is my neighbor? The one who showed mercy and compassion. That’s our definition.
Loving my neighbor as myself requires me to see myself in their place and act in ways that I would want someone to act toward me. If I and my family are running away from an oppressive government wherein my life and the life of my family is in danger, how would I want a congregation to treat me? If I had to enter the country illegally, putting ourselves in the place of others is the act of being a neighbor.
I can understand the lawyer, after hearing the parable, saying to Jesus, “Sorry, that’s not who I am.” And we have a lot of folks saying that today: Sorry, that’s not my neighbor. Our administration is saying that—our current administration. The people in southern Texas are our neighbor. But the immigrant community, the poor, those that are not like us—they’re not our neighbor.
I loved the church of my childhood. I respected the Sunday school teachers, the preachers, the elders, the deacons, the leaders. I treasure my childhood. But that time is gone. We can no longer isolate ourselves geographically or racially or according to our economics. If we are truly to be Christians, we have to be able to see people as our neighbor.
The church of my childhood was too small. When we moved to Murfreesboro, I had lots of folks asking us to come join them in their congregation. And of course, being a real Disciple—a real Disciple—I simply said, “Well, thank you very much. We’re looking for a church that is accepting of all people.” And they said, “Oh, we accept everybody.” I said, “Oh, your table is open to everyone?” “Oh yeah, our table is open to everyone.” And I said, “Well, LGBTQ+—are they welcome?” And there was a silence. All did not mean all.
And so we found our way to Pine Street. Praise the Lord. Where all means all. And we define neighbor to our community as being those who display mercy and compassion. And that’s our defining characteristic as a community of faith.
So, who’s your neighbor? Who’s your neighbor?
If we had time, I’d ask us to break into small groups and tell stories about who’s our neighbor—but we don’t. But maybe we could do that at a fellowship dinner sometime. I’d love to hear your story about who’s your neighbor. I got lots of them.
It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood.
A beautiful day for a neighbor.
Won’t you be mine?
Amen.